Introduction
Emily Serrapede and Frank J. Terry* were engaged after she graduated high school in January of 1948. When they first met in 1947 or thereabouts, they knew after going steady for a few months that they wanted to get married. After Frank gave Emily a Friendship Ring in 1947 they began what they called “The Three Year Plan”. The Plan consisted of achieving a series of goals along each phase of planning not only for the wedding, but the first year of married life. Included in this were all financial considerations for the honeymoon, the furniture, linens, house wares and deposit and security for an apartment.
Emily and Frank’s wedding ceremony took place in Our Lady of Guadalupe Church Bensonhurst, Brooklyn. In the Catholic church it is customary for the wedding ceremony to take place in the church to which the bride belongs. In this wedding, however, the ceremony took place in the parish to which Frank’s family was registered. Whenever Frank and Emily shared their memories of the Three Year Plan they never went into much detail about the church or why they chose Our Lady of Guadalupe. Emily made mention of her own parish in passing but never detailed why she was not married at St. Rosalia.
When we received the Marriage Certificate in the mail it was the first time we learned the name of the church. Previously Emily had related the setting of the ceremony as “the church near Blanche and Al’s house.” In this posting we share what we learned about Our Lady of Guadalupe and what we think were some considerations that factored into the choice of this church. We also discussed what might have contributed to the stark contrast in the attitudes towards the parish churches to which Emily’s and Frank’s families belonged.
Relationship Notes
Emily L. Serrapede was the daughter of Sam and Josie (nee Muro) Serrapede. She was born in 1931 and grew-up in the Italian-American community of Dyker Heights. The Serrapede family lived on 66th Street between 11th and 12th Avenues and were members of the parish of St. Rosalia’s Roman Catholic Church. St. Rosalia’s was located at the corner of 63rd Street and 14th Avenue.
Frank Jesse Terry*, the son of Al and Blanche Terry, was born in 1927. He lived with his sister, two brothers and parents in a two family home on 14th Avenue in a part of Dyker Heights bordering on Bensonhurst. Frank served our country stateside during WWII. His family were members of the parish of Our Lady of Guadalupe Church located on the corner of 72nd Street and 15th Avenue.
*See Note before Resources section.
Our Lady of Guadalupe Church: An Overview
The parish history at website of Our Lady of Guadalupe Church (see Resources section for link) is quite brief. From it we learned that
the original church was a frame structure built in 1906. As the years passed a convent and 2 school buildings followed but all were destroyed by a fire in 1933.
The church was rebuilt after this fire with an interior done in a Neo-Italianate style. Another fire in 1973 consumed most of that 1930s interior. The church was rebuilt again. The church rebuilt in 1973 is still existant today. The 1930s outer structure remains in place but the stained glass windows, pipe organ and interior date from 1973 onwards.
To learn a little more about the developments in the parish after the fire of New Year’s Eve 1931, Uncle Sammy and I reviewed and discussed the news coverage about it in The Brooklyn Daily Eagle.
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