Introduction
(Please see posting 88d-EmilyAnn’s Memoir-A Stitch in time-Seen and Unseen, 1958)
There was great excitement in Mrs. Peretta’s Kindergarten class in October of 1958. Each child was to prepare a short speech about who they would be for Halloween and why. Suddenly the excitement of this holiday became greater for me. I watched my classmates give out hints about their costumes without revealing all the details. All my classmates were excited. There was a sense of having our chance to shine in the spotlight. Oh, to be so admired! I resolved that I had to be costumed as someone fantastic, someone everyone would want to know.
I thought a gypsy fortune teller all decked out with a colorful scarf, full black skirt, big gold earrings and lots of glittering bracelets and necklaces was sure to be someone all the kids would gather around. We didn’t have anything at home I could use for a crystal ball but maybe Dad would lend me the deck of cards he used to play pinochle with his own father and Uncle Jesse.
Oh what fun it would be to invite my classmates over to visit on Halloween. We could sit on the stoop while I, dressed like a gypsy I named Madame Zara, had them pull a card I’d use to tell their fortune. I had no idea what the characters on the deck of cards stood for but Dad explained they were Jacks, Kings, Queens, Diamonds, Hearts and Spades. I still had no idea what I was doing but decided to use the cards as a way to make up a spectacular story to amuse my classmates and new friends from school.
One evening Mom got dead serious and took the deck of cards away just as Dad was having a good laugh about my story of the marriage of the King and Queen of Diamonds. She told Dad to put them somewhere safe where I couldn’t find them. There was no way on earth, Mom yelled, that I was going to be a gypsy.
This is how I learned about the Zingere, the Italian word for the Roma or Romany people. They are commonly called the gypsy people and are portrayed in the stereotypical images of fortune tellers, tinkers, or nomads travelling from place to place in colorful caravans. They are also categorized as thieves and criminals. Mom explained that the only Zingere she knew of were the ones she saw in Brooklyn when she was a little girl. Although the Serrapede family did not have any personal contact or interaction with the Roma people featured in the family story of this posting, the lore, gossip and beliefs within the Italian-American community in regards to the supposed occult powers of the Zingere were at the heart of much mental anguish the Serrapede family went through after the death of Emily’s baby brother Gerry.
This is how I learned the full story of the events surrounding Gerry’s death. It was much more than Gerry contracting pneumonia while the family lived in a cold-water flat that was the source of the guilt and mental torment Josie, Sam and Emily Leatrice went through in the months after Gerry’s death.
Relationship Notes
Sam and Josie (nee Muro) Serrapede were born in Agropoli, Italy. Josie immigrated to America as a 3 year-old when her mother came to America to join her father in a new life here. Sam came to the U.S. in the late 1920s. They married in 1930 and lived on in the Italian-American community of Dyker Heights. The world in which the Serrapede family lived during was located around 10th to 13th Avenues in the 60 numbered streets. Josie supported the family by doing piece work from home for women’s blouse companies. Sam worked as a shoe shiner.
Emily Leatrice Serrapede was the born in 1931 to Sam and Josie. Each year on April 18th Josie gave Emily a birthday party complete with a cake, festive decorations and the presence of her aunts, uncles and cousins. Emily was an only child for 7 years until Gerry was born. She considered him her baby sometimes when he was happy and loved to clap hands with her and smile. Once he got cranky, hungry or needed a change she was happy Josie was there and very much in charge, as she was in all matters related to the household.
Emily Leatrice was Sammy’s sister and EmilyAnn’s mother. She was married to Frank Jesse Terry* from 1953 to 1980.
Gerald Serrapede was the middle child of Sam and Josie. Gerald was born 7 years after his big sister, Emily Leatrice. She described him as a her “little cuddle-baby” and a joy to be with. Gerald was born in 1938.
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